Why is knowing yourself important? I’m an enormous believer that knowing is half the battle, of any situation, but especially of knowing yourself and there’s 3 reasons why and a few questions at the top to urge you started!
Let me start by saying that this probably isn’t a typical get to understand yourself post because what percentage folks just randomly start that journey? Right?? Like most folks don’t even believe it because we assume that we already know ourselves. I know, I did!
No, for me, this type of came on randomly and wasn't a lively decision but I’m so glad that I did! My eyes are opened such a lot quite before! I didn’t even realize what proportion I needed this until it just happened!
Maybe that’s where you are??
So it happened during quarantine and that i already work from home because I run a daycare then when nobody showed up…I was left with empty days with no motivation to try to to anything except wait. it had been during this point that I started asking myself simple questions and being surprised by my very own response! LOL. I started becoming more conscious of my habits and routines and without a transparent direction on why i used to be doing something, I unraveled.
And that’s how I started questioning everything!
And discovered that I don't know myself also as i assumed I did! All of this led me to write down this post starting with WHY is knowing yourself important.
SO WHY IS KNOWING YOURSELF IMPORTANT??
1. KNOWING IS HALF THE BATTLE.
I touched on this a touch bit up above but knowledge may be a huge a part of it. i feel that if ready to "> you'll best identify why you are feeling the way that you simply do then you’ll be able to affect it better.
Also, better understanding of yourself and the way you use is large for tackling personal goals and ambitions! Because you’ll be ready to better identify what you actually want and wish and the way best to travel about getting it!
2. BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF WHAT YOU ACTUALLY NEED AND NEED
Figuring what you actually want from life and yourself is clearly the primary step to truly getting those things, right?
So what are you alleged to do once you just keep following what you ASSUME you need?? Once you recognize yourself, you’ll be ready to make decisions supported YOU, not just guess.
While you won’t always get on the proper path, a minimum of you’ll be doing it for you! In pursuit of the life meant for you.
And once you are doing know what you would like , knowing yourself will make getting that goal or whatever it's , such a lot easier! Because you’ll be ready to mold yourself through growth and discipline.
3. KNOW YOUR WORTH
This one is HUGE!! I could have saved myself tons of heartache if I had known my worth growing up. i might have fought harder for myself and what I deserve during a friend, boyfriend, and my expectations of myself.
We all put ourselves in situations, especially when lonely, that's someone else’s idea. we expect that if we get over this then, we’ll get what we’re trying to find within the end of it.
Not exactly how it works, is it?
When you know your worth, walking faraway from bad situations and other people is straightforward because you recognize that you simply deserve better and better is round the corner!
It will not serve you to travel through life surrounding yourself with just anybody. it's 100% better to travel through this life with only God at your side than with folks that don’t fully support and love you for you. Don’t accept anything less! Know your worth then confirm everyone around you knows it too.
GETTING STARTED: GET TO UNDERSTAND YOURSELF
I didn’t realize at the start that i used to be going to know myself. I honestly thought that I knew myself pretty much which the opposite stuff in my life was just something I needed to work out like there have been outside factors that I didn’t understand yet.
It wasn’t until I started asking myself the foremost basic questions, did I start to journey down this road. I mean you’re getting to laugh because it seems so stupidly straightforward that it’s dumb but I started by asking,
DO YOU LIKE THIS?
Bam!! That’s it! That’s what got me started and once i used to be HONEST with myself, (yes, it’s totally possible to mislead yourself) and said no for the primary time about something i assumed I enjoyed, everything changed.
For those wondering, I finally admitted that I’m not an enormous fan of getting the TV on just to fill the ground noise . Who knew? Haha
WHY DOES ONE OR DON’T YOU?
Second breakthrough!
It wasn’t enough to only answer yes or no, but to force myself to believe why I did or didn’t like something and if I didn’t give myself an honest enough answer then I dug right down to find the important answer or make a note to return back and keep digging.
It all leads back to knowledge is power! i'm far more ampt to defend myself if I understand my WHY, like when I’m talking about something that i prefer and other people don’t catch on , rather than just shrugging my shoulders, I can give them insight and therefore the reaction is usually way better!
I have found that folks respect me far more albeit they don’t agree and I’ve found that I respect myself far more .
Because it's a purpose and a reason and whether or not someone agrees or understands, they can’t ever take that faraway from me.
They can’t devalue me anymore and that i would haven't been ready to see that if I didn’t get to understand myself.
The relationship with yourself is so important, you guys! you're never getting to know anyone else longer, more personally and intimately, and you'll never change that. there'll NEVER, EVER be another like you! you're so awesome and amazing! God sees it and now it’s time that you simply see it also .
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